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Aslyn Ebanks
Born in Jamaica
57 years
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Kenishab Green Still Miss You July 6, 2011
Well Aslyn, it's been 5 years and still missing you Aslyn-- so much has changed in the dynamics of our lives- but I know for a fact-- you and I would never change-- I know for a fact-- your connction with Dre Dre would be stronger than ever-- I know for a fact- I'd have summers off- cuz more than anyone else in this world- I would pack Dre Dre up and send him to Jamaica to spend the entire summer with hsi grand-dad and I would not have 1 single care in the world. There isn't a living soul today (w/ the exception of my own mom) that I would have that level of comfort with my baby- but with you- I'd send him down in a heart beat- knowing he would be well cared for. So much I would tell you now- between your loss and then my own dad's a year later- the equilibrium of our lives have taken a shift- although we've all recooped and started new lives and are happy- just seems as if both your losses were of such significance in so many ways. I miss you- very much. RIP. Nish. 
Miranda Wellington Truely Special March 17, 2009
Someone who cannot be forget , a person with a kind heart and always smiled and waved when he passed . Rest in peace
BRITNEY FALCONER MY TRIBUTE June 22, 2008
Kenisha Green-Ebanks A new letter to my Father-in Law. April 19, 2007

Dear Aslyn, it seems like just yesterday we spoke on the phone... tonight I was at work and I had an overwhelming thought of you... I wanted to reach out to you...It's been so long since we have sat down and talked. You were always a phone call away and never ever too busy for Nisha. I miss you now, these last days, more than ever before....I know everything happens for a reason, but I wish you were still here with us... you were such a confidant... Above all, I trusted you... I could talk to you about anything and know you would never judge me, but rather you would console me, if I needed consoling, you would cheer me up with a corny joke if I needed laughter, you would guide me in the right path, if I needed guidance. You were a true inspiration. I just cannot fathom why you had to leave us... I truly miss you...this evening is an evening I would reach out to my father-in-law for some much needed advice and know with certainty when I hung up the phone, what direction I was going to take things. You were such a good listener. Today, Tonight, you are in my prayers and thoughts... I will always love you Aslyn...

 

Kenisha 

 

Fern Cousin December 2, 2006

Aslyn, "Cooks"You manifested love, laughter, compassion and kindness in your life. Your passing has left us asking questions, but we know you are in God's presence and all is well.

 

Fern & Dennis

Sonia Ebanks Sister in Law November 17, 2006

When God made you He knew there would be only one such mold. Your uniqueness would be felt in many ways and by all those who came in contact with you. You never complained and even when the task seems unmanageable you still stuck to it. You abhored selfishness and supported fairness and justice.

 Your kindness was felt by all who knew you, including my mother, and yes, your infectious laughter and your ability to find a joke in almost every situation made being around you a pleasure. I still remember the first time you came home and said the latest term is "We want justice". Your description of the people demonstrating had Emerson and me in stitches. Then there was the other tem, "Every ting plug in, nutten nuh no plug out". I could go on and on. In spite of these light moments you were aware of when you were being taken for granted and would not take kindly to it.

I still cant believe you are gone and often times I feel that you are going to appear, but I know that will never happen. You have left a void that will never be filled but we who are left behind will emulate those values and attitudes which you held dear. God gave you to us for a time and he choose to take you back. We thank Him for your life and time here with us.

Doreen Sister November 13, 2006

Little did I know that God was calling your name, that the angels arms were outstretched for your flight home and that this was our last phone call. How I wish you were still just a phone call away.

It broke my heart to let you go but you did not go alone for part of me went with you that day If love could save you. You would not have died and if tears could bring you back you would be here with me.

Your love is still my guide and although I cannot see you I can feel your presence.

The earthly bond is broken and nothing seems the same anymore. But as God calls each of us home what a homecoming that will be. Rest well my brother!

Kenisha Green-Ebanks In Loving Memory of my Dear Father-in Law, Aslyn. November 11, 2006
I wanted to write a token, I wanted to share some feelings, I wanted to take a moment to acknowledge a person whose departure seems unreal.
I wanted to extend my condolences to his sons, to his father, to his sister, and brother and to his grandson.
I wanted to take a step back, now in retrospect, the feeling that previously overwhelmed me at the time of Aslyns’ death has minimally subsided.
Allowing me to open up my channel of thoughts and emit feelings of loss that are quite frankly irreparable.
While I miss Aslyn with every fiber of my being, handling his death over the past few months has been therapeutic. When I think of Aslyn, good thoughts fill my day; the thought of him and his ways and his character, is like sweet therapy.
Today I can honestly say, he is truly missed. Mostly missed by his grandson, little Dre Dre. It’s amazing how he can point out his grandpa’s picture out of a flock of others on our dresser. He knows him, and he loves him. He blows him kisses and tells him he loves him all the time. It’s incredible to see and hear. If Aslyn were alive today he would be extremely proud of his grandchild.
Aslyn will always be in our hearts, thoughts and prayers, he was such a loving and humble human being; words cannot begin to describe him in his fullest.
I will always have good thoughts of my father-in-law. He was a wonderful role model for his kids and I pray both his sons model him in life more than anyone else.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Emerson Ebanks Brother November 2, 2006

Aslyn, as your brother I would  like to say that you were a wonderful human being.You displayed from very early in life a tremendous love for family,and extreme loyalty to friends. Your popularity  in school and throughout your working life speaks volume to your genorousity and kind heartedness.You were full of fun, always had a joke to tell and  even when it was ex-rated, you had the ability to dress it up to make it presentable to any audience.

You spent all of your working life in the Auto Parts industry and I gather you were the only one in the business who knew all the parts that make up an English Ford motor vehicle and could quote each parts #, from memory. 

Your passing has been a great loss to me. I miss you in so many ways. Your laughter, your jokes, your sense of humour and most of all your friendship.Your memory will last forever.I will always miss you and love you forever.

May your soul rest in peace and light perpetual shine upon you. Sleep on my brother, I hope to meet you in heaven some day.

                                                     Merson.

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